Men love certain things about the woman they love, but they would never say it out loud. Here are 12 things that men love about their partners that they don’t want to tell anyone.
Take note, ladies: if you can do these things, your man will be crazy about you.
1. If you put on his clothes
When your partner wears your clothes, it can make you feel both happy and sad. On the one hand, it shows that they feel comfortable enough around you to borrow your clothes. But it could also mean that they stole one of your favourite shirts (again).
But even if they often take clothes from your closet, there’s still something special about seeing them in your clothes. It’s a sign of closeness and trust, and it can make even the worst day better. So the next time your partner wears your clothes, enjoy the moment, even if it means giving up your favourite shirt for a couple of days.
2. When you play with them
Men love it when their significant others play with them. It shows that you trust them enough to let down your guard and have fun with them. Men love it when their partners show their playful side, whether it’s by messing around in the kitchen or goofing off during a game of tag.
So if you feel like playing, don’t be afraid to tell your partner. Most likely, they’ll be glad to join in on the fun.
3. When you show your vulnerable side
We all have times when we feel weak, and men find it very endearing when their partners show this side.
Men love it when their partners let them in on their more vulnerable moments, like when they say they’re afraid of heights or still miss their old homes. It shows that you trust and care about each other, and it can make your partner feel closer to you.
So, next time you feel weak, don’t be afraid to talk to your partner about how you feel. They’ll be glad you told them the truth, and they’ll be there for you no matter what you’re going through.
4. When you give them control over you
One way men show they love their partners is by taking care of them. So, the next time you feel sick, don’t be afraid to ask your partner to take care of you.
They’ll be happy to bring you soup in bed or run to the shop for you when you’re out of things. Who knows, they might even have more fun taking care of you.
5. When you show them you care
Men often feel like they aren’t valued enough, so it means a lot when their partners take the time to enjoy them. Men will be touched by your words of gratitude, whether it’s a simple “thank you” for taking out the trash or a heartfelt compliment about how much you appreciate everything they do for you.
So, if you’re thankful for your partner, don’t be shy about telling them. A few kind words can go a long way towards making your partner feel loved and appreciated.
6. Standing up for yourself
Men like women who are sure of themselves enough to stand up for themselves. When you stand up to bullies or speak up in meetings, men will admire your courage and strength.
7. When you tell them the truth
Men like it when you tell them the truth, even if it’s not what they want to hear. So, the next time you want to sugarcoat the truth, don’t. Instead, tell your partner the truth. They’ll respect you for being honest, and they might even like it if you’re brutally honest.
8. When you’re yourself around them
Men love it when their partners feel safe enough with them to be themselves. Men will like getting to know the real you, whether you’re silly or serious, shy or outgoing.
So, the next time you feel bad about being yourself, remind yourself that your partner loves you for who you are. Accept your oddities and let your true self show.
9. When you’re comfortable in silence
Men often feel like they have to fill every pause with something, but they like it when their partners are also comfortable with silence. Men will feel closer to you when you’re comfortable with silence. This is true whether you’re in a long car ride or just having a quiet moment together.
So, the next time you want to think about yourself, don’t be afraid to talk to your partner about it. They might not say much back, but they’ll be glad to have the chance to get to know you better.
10. If you touch them
Men like to touch their partners because it makes them feel close to them. So, the next time you want to show affection, don’t be afraid to touch your partner. Men will like the chance to feel close to you, whether it’s through a hug, a kiss, or just a hand on the shoulder.
11. When you make them laugh
Men often feel like they need to be the strong, serious ones in a relationship, so when their partners make them laugh, it’s a relief. Men will like your sense of humour and want to spend time with you, whether you’re making jokes or just acting silly.
12. If you’re there when they need you
Men often feel like they need to be strong and independent, but they also like it when their partners are there for them. When you’re there for your partner, whether it’s by giving him a shoulder to cry on or just listening to him talk, he’ll feel closer to you.